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Makeup and clothing is an issue for many teenage girls. If you are stressing about what you should look like as a newcomer in middle school, or a freshie in high school, here's a quick guide to help your fashion mature with you throughout middle and high school.
In Sixth grade, wear lip gloss, some mascara, and maybe a little bit of pale eyeshadow; don't go too heavy or it may look bad. If you want to try out more types of makeup, keep that for home experiments.
As for clothes, keep it in your comfort level. Bear this in mind: if you are wearing a bra or undershirt, don't let the straps hang out. It doesn't look cool; it just looks sloppy. If you are wearing a short shirt, check in the mirror to see if your stomach hangs out of the bottom. Otherwise, wear something a little bit longer. Also, if your pants are likely to slip, wear a belt. Belts are totally hip now!
* The main point is to keep the makeup light, and the clothes clean cut.
In Seventh grade you are beginning to care a little more what you look like; you might want to try curling your hair a few days a week, and using different hairstyles besides your typical ponytail.
If you are acne prone, try foundation. Remember thet even oily skin can get flaky and that looks horrible with foundation. So try it on weekends first and ask your mother (or someone that uses foundation well) if it looks okay.
In Seventh grade you might want to try eyeliner. But not too much because you don't want to look like a racoon!
Start trying to tie outfits together with accessories. It's good to try new things with your makeup and clothes. But when you try the new things, make sure it looks good on you, not just in the picture or at the store. Check out different stores, and find out if there is a style that suits you.
In eighth grade you are probably getting good at makeup and you know what you like. Try establishing your own hairstyle without looking like everyone else. For example, if everyone has long, layered hair with no bangs, try light wispy bangs and a shorter, layered look.
You might be wearing tighter jeans now and probably starting to get concerned with impressing the guys, so it's safe to try out more mature styles such as a sleek leather blazer, or lower cut necklines. If you are happy with your sports bra, that is totally OK. But it's safe now to check out the actual bra department and wear something that makes you feel pretty - like lace.
Ninth grade: high school! This is a big transition. Now in the same world as seniors, you are going to want to look like the rest of your peers. You should by now have your makeup and hair styles already. Try to update this look a bit, because no one wants to carry the same look they had in middle school. Dramatize a detail in your hair. If its known for it's left side part, part it even deeper. Make a straight style even sleeker and hip. Learn to make youre curls tighter, or looser.
In high school you might want to wear your usual make up during the day, and as you start to go out with friends and boys at night, add a darker shade of eyeliner, or jazz up your lips with something more festive. It's also good to try new shoes, try wearing spikier ankle boots with a pair of hot jeans and a blouse. Chunkier heels aren't as hip as spikes as you get older. Incorporate accessories into your outfit. Buy yourself a bag that's in suede or leather to keep your schoolbooks in, instead of a backpack. You will want to buy yourself a new jacket, and make it your own.
You know what you like, so go and find clothes that fit your style, but crank it up a notch for a more mature feel.

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*Apply Beetroot Paste on ur lips. It increase the lip color.

   

*before going to bed wash ur lips with rose water then apply butter on lips.within a week the wil become pink,soft & supple


*if there are cracks on your lips just apply cheese before going to bed.. this makes the lips soft...

   

*mix the juice of lemon,honey and glycerin apply to lips it decreases blckness of lips.

   

*apply beetroot juice daily for 5 minutes be4 going 2 bed sure within 10 days ur lips become red n shiny.

    

*Mix 2 to 3drops of oil and tomato juice and apply on your lips before going to bed.it gives red color and look so beautyful.try it
   

*Take a powder of dhaniya and make it past with lemon and massage on your lips for a 5-10 min and wash it. With in 7-10 days your lips going to turn in to pinkish colour...
    

*drink 10-12 glasses of water,apply ghee or butter & leave it whole night and massage with honey with few lemon drops in the morning. within 20 days you will get soft & rosy lips.

   

*everyday night beetrut juice apply then morning your lips very beautful
    

*Apply plain honey frequently on lips for pink and smooth lips.

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For a long time now it has been established that women can be as well professionally prepared as men.
In this case, let’s see some tips for becoming a successful women:
Organization
Only an organized woman can manage a successful career and taking care of her family in the same time. Be responsible concerning your agenda, and don’t promise you will be present somewhere if you know it is impossible. If you do this and you can’t accomplish what you promise you will seem irresponsible.
Work for success
Networking is a fantastic way of knowing professional people which can benefit of your business or vice-versa. People tend to do business with those who they know and they trust. Look always for a client or a professional opportunity.
Be sincere with yourself
Be original, creative and clients will appear immediately. Be sincere with yourself and your passion will bring you only good things.
Take good care of the money
Don’t let anyone manage your money, be an active participant in spending them no matter if you are at home or at work. Even if you have an account man, keep an evidence of the money yourself.
Give a lot
We receive what we deserve, in any life aspect. Be generous with other people, give them from what you have and you will surely impress your colleagues and employees.
Do something for yourself
We need some moments to forget about the material things that surround us. Don’t forget to take care of you, not only of other people. For example, some hours at a manicure saloon should be an important thing on your agenda. You are the most important!
Balance
You should decide which are the most important things in your life. When these things are on your priority list, everything else settles.

TEXERCISES FOR YOUR FACE!  


 

Your face represents the person you are, and yet, while we treat our skin externally with creams and lotions, we forget that like the rest of our body, our face can do with some exercise too. Here are some exercises that will increase the blood circulation to your face, giving your skin that extra glow and extended youthfulness.

1. Let’s begin with your cheeks
Smile as wide as you can. Take your three middle fingers, place them on your cheeks and pull down your cheeks at the same time. Tilt your head backwards while doing this. This exercise works wonderfully on the cheek muscles and helps in keeping them firm.

2. For the forehead
Place your index fingers above your eyes and pull them down very gently; at the same time, attempt to raise your eyebrows. This exercise will work the muscles on your forehead making them firm.

3. Improve circulation
Take a deep breath and exhale with some force, opening your mouth as wide as possible. Also, stick out your tongue while breathing out as far as you can. Keep your eyes open and look towards the ceiling. This exercise is excellent in improving the circulation in your face.

4. Beat that double chin
The bane of an otherwise pretty face, a double chin can be effectively tackled with this exercise. Sit in a chair and tilt your head back to look at the ceiling with your lips closed. Now, purse your lips and count till twenty. Relax your head and bring it to the normal position.

5. For a smooth, sensuous neck
Sit straight and tilt your head back towards the ceiling. Relax and close your lips. Move your lower lip over your top lip for as far as possible and maintain that position for 10 counts. Repeat this exercise 10 times.
And finally, open your lips as wide as you can and feel the stretch on your lips, cheeks and all facial muscles. This exercise will increase circulation to your entire face, relieve stress as well as relax your face muscles.
 


TRICKS TO HANDLE OILY SKIN


Is your skin oily? You need not fret. If you think people with dry or combination skin are better off, you’re mistaken. Having oily skin isn’t all that bad!

Why Oily Skin Occurs
Sebaceous glands produce a healthy lubricant called sebum. When these glands run on overdrive, it results in oily skin. Did you know that sebum actually protects your skin from becoming excessively dry, brittle or cracked? That’s why on a positive note, oily skin is less prone to skin ageing. While oily skin is prone to pimples and blackheads, the good news is that such outbreaks can be controlled.

Skin Care For Oily Skin
o Use a soap-free face wash at least 2-3 times a day. Never over-use a face wash as that will disturb the natural sebum levels of your skin.
o Avoid cream-based cleansers as they will leave your skin oilier.
o Avoid alcohol-based astringents as that may leave your skin feeling stretched. Preferably use rose water or an alcohol free toner/astringent.

Exfoliating Oily Skin
o Use an exfoliating face wash with tea tree oil. Tree tea oil has an anti-septic property that prevents acne.
o Once a week, gently massage a scrub on your face to keep blackheads at bay.
o During a bath, wash your body gently with a soft loofah and a mild exfoliating body wash.

More Tips For Oily Skin
o Always bathe with lukewarm water. Hot or cold water will tamper with your skin texture.
o Half an hour before a shower, rub cucumber and lemon juice mixed in a ratio of 1:1 on your face.
o Add a few drops of eau de cologne to your bath water. The eau de cologne will act like a mild astringent thereby cleaning the pores and preventing pimples.
o Apply a clay/fruit mask once a week to keep the glow and not the shine on your face.
o Apply an oil-free moisturiser after a bath.
o Avoid any kind of body butter, mineral oil or petroleum based lotions/creams.
o Before stepping out, apply oil-free sunscreen lotion (SPF 15).


SUFFERING FROM DRY, CHAPPED, WRINKLED SKIN?  


Well, you are not the only one to suffer the vagaries of nature. Even the most fair-skinned amongst start wearing our age on our face after a certain time and it is not always easy to camouflage it behind a ` I accept smile'. Massaging the face is an easy and important part of beauty regime to keep wrinkles at bay. Besides softening the skin, another good effect of moisturizer massage is that it stimulates blood circulation and removes dead skin. Massage is also known to tighten certain skin tissues that tend to go flabby and give the face a worn out look. 


A FEW MUST DOS FOR FACE MASSAGE 


• Remove all traces of makeup, dirt and grime before massaging the face.
• Never exert pressure on the face while massaging it. Massage should always be done with a light, feathery touch of fingers.
• Fingers should move in a swift, light but firm way.
• Fingers should move in an upward and outward manner towards the temple.
• Facial massage should not last beyond 20-25 minutes.
• Tie a head band and drape a towel below the shoulder before you start the facial massage.
• Dry skins should be massaged with cold cream. Olive oil with a few drops of lemon juice is ideal for oily skin.   

There are many outwardly signs that will indicate that the bra you are wearing is wrong. Watch out for the following telltale signs:-

• Your bra center does not properly touch the breastbone region of your chest.
  
• Your breasts look out of shape.
  
• Your breasts are getting cramped inside the breasts.
  
• There are red marks on your shoulders.
  
• You are suffering from shoulder and back pains, especially after wearing bras.

The above indications show that the bra you are wearing is not correct – it is either looser or it is tighter than it needs to be.

Selecting the correct Bra

The perfect bra is a myth. There is no such thing. The most you can do is to find a bra that fits you most comfortably. This can be done only if you take your bra shopping seriously. Remember the following points while shopping for your bras:-

(i) The right size – the right bra

The first thing to do is to take the correct size of your bust. This is best done at home with a measuring tape. Measure your frame size and cup size and remember these numbers. Once in the shop, you must ask for those numbers. But keep in mind that different companies design bras differently; so that a bra size from one company may fit you while the same number from another company may not fit you. You will need to buy one bra to get a demo first before planning on stocking on your bras.

(ii) Checking for materials

Bras are made of several materials, like cotton, satin, silk, Lycra, etc. You must choose which material you want. Keep the climate into account. Silk and satin bras look sexier, but they are not exactly the greatest choices for a summer wear. You will become all sweaty under your bra. For the summer, select a cooler material like cotton. You may also need to check if you are allergenic to any particular material. If allergenic, then you should avoid bras made of that material like the plague. Breasts are very sensitive parts of the anatomy; and even a slight irritation there can disturb the well-being of the entire body.

(iii) Complementing your body and figure

Your bra is innerwear, but it also plays a vital role in enhancing your figure, and hence lends grace to the outer garment that you wear. Your bra must complement your natural figure. Keep the following points in mind:-

a) If you have a large bust, then go for wide shoulder bras with wide straps. The bras must have full cups. Such bras will give good support to your bust and contain the breasts fully. You can also select a bra with under-wiring for better support. Do not choose bras with more designs on them, such as lace, for they will only make your large bust seem more prominent.

b) If you have a small bust, you can make it more prominent by choosing a padded bra. If you do not want that, then a simple balcony style bra would do, which will give a good uplift to your breasts. You can buy fancy bras that would boost your figure even more. But do not go for square cut bras and flat tops which will make your figure flatter.

(iv) Bras for special purposes

Finally, you have to consider if you are buying a bra for some special occasion or purpose. There are the following special bras available:-

a) Sports bras – These bras are used while exercising. Your sports bra must be comfortably fitting your bust without straining at all. If there is a strain, change to a larger size. Sports bras keep the breast ligaments well-supported during your strenuous exercises and maintain the shape of the breasts.

b) Nursing bras – These bras are used by lactating women. Nursing bras have cups that open like flaps. Check that these flaps can be refastened easily and quickly. Also the bra must have base straps, which will keep the bra in place even when the cups are unfastened.

There are several kinds of bras. You must take time out to select the right type and size for yourself. A good bra has the potential to make you look more beautiful and feel more self-confident.

What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined... to strengthen each other... to be at one with each other in silent unspeakable memories.
~ George Eliot

Valentine's Day quotes In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.
~ Mignon McLaughlin

For one human being to love another that is perhaps the most difficult of our tasks; the ultimate, the last test and proof; the work for which all other work is but preparation.
~ Rainer Maria Rilke

There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread.
~ Mother Teresa

Love cannot endure indifference. It needs to be wanted. Like a lamp, it needs to be fed out of the oil of another's heart, or its flame burns low.
~ Henry Ward Beecher

You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have really lived, are the moments when you have done things in a spirit of love.
~ Henry Drummond

Treasure the love you receive above all.
It will survive long after your good health has vanished.
~ Og Mandino

The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being. His heart withers if it does not answer another heart. His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts and finds no other inspiration.
~ Pearl S. Buck

Love works in miracles every day: such as weakening the strong, and stretching the weak; making fools of the wise, and wise men of fools; favouring the passions, destroying reason, and in a word, turning everything topsy-turvy.
~ Marguerite De Valois

All love that has not friendship for its base,
is like a mansion built upon the sand.
~ Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Love is the emblem of eternity: it confounds all notion of time:
effaces all memory of a beginning, all fear of an end.
~ Germaine De Stael

Love is the history of a woman's life; it is an episode in man's.
~ Germaine De Stael

The loving are the daring.
~ Bayard Taylor

Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted is the most terrible.
~ Mother Teresa

The only gift is a portion of thyself.
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

The best portion of a good man's life,
His little, nameless, unremembered acts,
Of kindness and of love.
~ William Wordsworth

Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be.
~ Robert Browning

Love is a thing, well, its kind of like quicksand:
The more you are in it, the deeper you sink.
And when it hits you, you've just got to fall.
~ UB40

Love is the expansion of two natures in such fashion
that each include the other,
each is enriched by the other.
~ Felix Adler
Pink Heart
Think about it, there must be higher love
Down in the heart or hidden in the stars above
Without it, life is a wasted time
Look inside your heart, I'll look inside mine.
~ Steve Winwood

Love is an electric blanket with somebody else in control of the switch.
~ Cathy Carlyle

Love does not consist in gazing at each other
but in looking together in the same direction.
~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Romance has been elegantly defined as the offspring of fiction and love.
~ Benjamin Disraeli

Find the person who will love you because of your differences and
not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life.
~ Leo Buscaglia

Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes.
There�s too much fraternizing with the enemy.
~ Henry Kissinger

To laugh often and love much... to appreciate beauty,
to find the best in others, to give one's self...
this is to have succeeded.
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Kindness in words creates confidence.
Kindness in thinking creates profoundness.
Kindness in giving creates love.
~ Lao Tzu

The heart has reasons that reason does not understand.
~ Jacques Benigne Bossuel

Love is the true means by which the world is enjoyed:
our love to others, and others' love to us.
~ Thomas Trahern

Love is always bestowed as a gift --
freely, willingly, and without expectation....
We don't love to be loved; we love to love.
~ Leo Buscaglia


It is best to love wisely, no doubt;
but to love foolishly is better than
not to be able to love at all.
~ William Thackeray

Love is a mutual self-giving which ends in self-recovery.
~ Fulton J. Sheen

We find rest in those we love, and we provide a resting place
in ourselves for those who love us.
~ Saint Bernard of Clairvaux

Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the only love we keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away.
~ Elbert Hubbard

The most powerful symptom of love is a tenderness which becomes at times almost insupportable.
~ Victor Hugo

There is no instinct like that of the heart.
~ Lord Byron

We are all born for love...
it is the principle existence and it's only end.
~ Disraeli

To fear love is to fear life,
and those who fear life are already three parts dead.
~ Bertrand Russell, Earl Russell

We can only learn to love by loving.
~ Iris Murdoch

May no gift be too small to give,
nor too simple to receive,
which is wrapped in thoughtfulness
and tied with love.
~ L.O. Baird

Spread love everywhere you go:
first of all in your own home.
Give love to your children, to a wife
or husband, to a next-door neighbor.
~ Mother Teresa

The dedicated life is the life worth living.
You must give with your whole heart.
~ Anne Dillard

Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.
~ Oliver Wendell Holmes

You come to love not by finding the perfect person,
but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
~ Sam Keen

What the heart has once owned and had, it shall never lose.
~ Henry Ward Beecher

Love doesn't make the world go 'round.
Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
~ Franklin P. Jones

The truth [is] that there is only one terminal dignity-love. And the story of a love is not important-what is important is that one is capable of love. It is perhaps the only glimpse we are permitted of eternity.
~ Helen Hayes

Vintage t-shirts are probably the most recognizable “emo” fashion item around, especially on eBay. A proper emo shirt should be tight-fitting, show at least a little wear, and be at least 10 years old, if not older. A funny/ironic slogan is definitely a plus.

S.O.S - Rihanna

I'm obsessive when just one thought of you comes up
And I'm aggressive just one thought of close enough
You got me stressing, incessantly pressing the issue
'Cause every moment gone you know I miss you
I'm the question and you're of course the answer
Just hold me close boy 'cause I'm your tiny dancer
You make me shaken up, never mistaken
But I can't control myself, got me calling out for help

S.O.S. please someone help me
It's not healthy for me to feel this way
Y.O.U. are making this hard
I can't take it, see it don't feel right
S.O.S. please someone help me
It's not healthy for me to feel this way
Y.O.U. are making this hard
You got me tossin' and turnin' and can't sleep at night

This time please someone come and rescue me
'Cause you on my mind it's got me losing it
I'm lost, you got me lookin' for the rest of me
Love is testing me but still I'm losing it
This time please someone come and rescue me
'Cause you on my mind, it's got me losing it
I'm lost, you got me looking for the rest of me
Got the best of me, so now I'm losing it

Just your presence and I second guess my sanity
Yes it's a lesson, it's unfair, you stole my vanity
My tummy's up in knots so when I see you I get so hot
My common sense is out the door, can't seem to find the lock
Take on me you know inside you feel it right
Take me on I put desire up in your arms tonight
I'm out with you, you got me head over heels
Boy you keep me hanging on the way you make me feel

S.O.S. please someone help me
It's not healthy for me to feel this way
Y.O.U. are making this hard
You got me tossin' and turnin' and can't sleep at night

This time please someone come and rescue me
'Cause you on my mind, it's got me losing it
I'm lost, you got me lookin' for the rest of me
Love is testing me but still I'm losing it
This time please someone come and rescue me
'Cause you on my mind got me losing it
I'm lost, you got me looking for the rest of me
Got the best of me, so now I'm losing it

Boy, you know you got me feeling open
And boy, your loves enough with words unspoken
I said boy I'm telling you, you got me open
I don't know what to do it's true
I'm going crazy over you
I'm begging

S.O.S. please somebody help me
It's not healthy for me to feel this way
Y.O.U. are making this hard
You got me tossin' and turnin' and can't sleep at night

This time please someone come and rescue me
'Cause you on my mind, it's got me losing it
I'm lost, you got me lookin' for the rest of me
Love is testing me but still I'm losing it
This time please someone come and rescue me
'Cause you on my mind got me losing it
I'm lost you, got me looking for the rest of me
Got the best of me, I'm losing it.

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Sixteen Candles - The Crests

Happy birthday, happy birthday, baby
Oh, I love you so

Sixteen candles make a lovely light
But not as bright as your eyes tonight
(as your eyes tonight) (Oh)
Blow out the candles, make your wish come true
For I'll be wishing that you love me, too
(that you love me, too)

You're only sixteen (sixteen)
But you're my teenage queen (you're my queen)
You're the prettiest, loveliest girl I've ever seen
(I've ever seen) (OH!)

Sixteen candles in my heart will glow
For ever and ever for I love you so (for I love you so)

You're only sixteen (sixteen)
But you're my teenage queen (you're my queen)
Oh, you're the prettiest, loveliest girl I've ever seen
(I've ever seen) (OH!)

Sixteen candles in my heart will glow
For ever and ever for I love you so
(for I love you so)
For I love you so!!!

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How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

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Divine Love
by M.S. Beltran

Throughout the ages, impatient singles have sought mystical means in order to foresee their romantic future. Consider these divination practices and internet dating services may not seem like such a bad idea after all:

Love Omens:

If someone sweeping the floor sweeps over your feet, it is a sign that you will never marry.

If you are making a quilt or bedspread and don't finish it, you will never marry.

If a bachelor places a bachelor's buttons plant in his pocket on Valentine's day and it continues to bloom, he will be lucky in love all the year through.

If you catch a falling leaf on Valentine's day before it hits the ground, you'll have a year of happy relationships.

Gypsies who wanted to know if they would marry would ask a mule. If both the mule's ears twitched, it meant yes. If only one twitched, it meant maybe. If the mule's ears were still, the answer was no.

Take two chestnuts. Name one for yourself and one for your love. Place them on a fire log. If they burn quietly, you will have a harmonious relationship. If the one named for your love pops or sputters, your love will be tumultuous. If the one named for you pops or sputters, you will lose interest in your love.

To Find Out Whom You Will Wed:

Find a four leaf clover and cut it in half. Place the half in your shoe and go for a walk. The first person you meet will have the same initials as your future spouse.

Make a list of the names of all the people you might possibly wed. Hold an apple by the stem and spin it, calling out the names. The name you speak when the stem breaks and the apple falls will be the one you will marry.

Peel an apple skin in one, long strip and toss it over your left shoulder. The letter it forms is the initial of your future love's Christian name.

Beneath the moon on Valentine's day, crack an egg into a bowl of water. The shape the white takes will hint at the occupation of the one you will wed.

Place a knife on a table before you and spin it clockwise. If the blade faces towards you when it stops, your future mate will have dark hair. If it faces away from you, your future mate will be fair.

To find out who you will marry, write the names of all the men or women you know on hazelnuts (one name per nut). Roast them over an open fire. The first one to pop is the one with whom you are destined to be.

With an apple and a knife, stand before a mirror. Slice the apple into pieces. Stick a pieces on the point of the knife and hold it over your left shoulder. As you gaze into the mirror, you will see a vision of your future spouse appear behind you to take the apple.

Go to a church at midnight on Midsummer's Eve. Walk around it 9 times while sprinkling hemp seeds and saying, "As the hemp seeds I do sow, who will follow me and mow?" You will see a vision of your future life partner. Unfortunately, since hemp (marijuana) is illegal, don't be surprised if it is a police officer.

To Dream Of Your Future Mate:

Wear your nightgown inside-out.

Place a mirror under your pillow.

Rub your head with citrus peel before retiring.

Place two bay leaves under your pillow in a cross.

Place a sprig of cinquefoil with seven leaflets under your pillow.

Place a sprig of thyme in your left shoe and a sprig of rosemary in your right; place your shoes at the foot of your bed for the night to dream of your future lover.

You'd be surprised at what it isn't!!

An insight into the mind and make-up of the opposite sex can be an invaluable tool, especially in relationships. As with most things, the subject of what men really want from women has been the topic of many debates... and quite a few arguments!

I am sure that many of you have heard a guy say something along the lines of, "I would sleep with her, but would marry her (another woman)." Well, what does that actually mean? It means that, when it comes to relationships, a guy has two main focuses: sex and companionship. The ideal woman, therefore, would satisfy both!

With regards to sex, contrary to popular belief, it is not looks that drives a man wild, it's attitude. He wants a woman to captivate his imagination. Someone that oozes confidence in every way: the way she walks, talks, dresses and looks. He wants a woman that, while she holds herself with class, also protrays that she wants him as much as he wants her. He wants someone that will play with his emotions sexually, someone that will tease him, force him to chase her and yet will also allow him to capture her... a little bit at a time :-)

On the other hand, he also, more than anything, wants a soulmate and a friend. Someone who is loving, caring, affectionate and tender. Someone he can talk to and also have fun with. He wants someone that will love him unconditionally. someone who is there for him when he needs her, yet also someone who he can be there for too.

He is looking for a best friend that will laugh at his jokes, no matter how dumb they are. Someone that will take an interest in the things he likes, even sports. Someone that will not try to change him, yet at the same time will help him to improve and grow where it is needed. He wants someone that will trust, respect and admire him, despite all his faults. His ideal partner will focus on his good qualities more than they criticize his faults.

If there were a set of guidelines for how to make a man feel special, I think UsedtobeBlonde expressed it best in our Male's Perspective forum:

1. Told him I wouldn't change anything about him.
   
   
2. Didn't interupt him when he spoke.
   
   
3. I was his biggest fan and had faith in him even when he doubted himself.
   
   
4. Listened to head banger music (even though I'm mostly country).
   
   
5. Laughed at his dumb jokes (even the blonde ones).
   
   
6. Watched NASCAR racing with him (and liked it).
   
   
7. Helped him launch the boat (even though it scares me and he knows it).
   
   
8. Baked him M&M cookies.
   
   
9. Respected him.
   
   
10. Trusted him completly.
    
    
11. Threw my cats out of my bed when he was here.
    
    
12. Drove when he was tired.
    
    
13. Looked in his eyes and listened when he talked.
    
    
14. Admired his muscles.
    
    
15. Always took his side.

I miss you. I miss you deeply!
I wish I could be with you to fill you with kisses and tell sweet things in those pretty little ears of yours. If you had any idea how much I’m missing you right now, you’d be flying over here, to hug me and kiss me and reassure me of your love one more time.
How can you miss someone this much? How can love, such an “abstract” thing, take up so much of my thoughts, being as rational as I am? What makes it such a strong feeling? And why this constant need to see you, to be with you? Am I going crazy? I think I am...
And if so, going crazy over someone as special as you are is a sign of good taste, to say the least, for there must only be a few number of people in the world with so many special characteristics as you have.
I can’t stand being away from you, because when that happens it’s as if time doesn’t move, the hours become longer and boring and there’s nothing – not even a fine glass of wine – that can bring some comfort. I fight loneliness and can’t wait to be with you face to face, to touch you and kiss you gently, softly.
Be sure these will be very special kisses because you’re worth it.

I love you and miss you
Your Sonu < (UR Signature)

1. Place notes in your lover's lunch telling him how much you love him.

2. Page you sweetheart with an I Love You page.

3. Give her a soft kiss.

4. Make everyday things special.

5. Give your love a little note or sending him an e-mail with a poem in it.

6. Listen to her every word.

7. Making a list of everything you love about them. No matter how stupid.

8. Spend quality time with the one you love.

9. Have flowers delivered with a note attached saying simply, "I love you."

10. Give unexpected hugs and kisses in unexpected places.

11. Cook them their favorite meal.

12. Hold each other when you fall asleep.

13. Just be together.

14. Give your love a long hard kiss on the lips, followed by a gift.

15. Sending romantic postcards on a daily basis.

16. Get off work early and surprise your sweetheart with a dozen roses and dinner, just because.

17. Spend all week thinking of something special for the weekend and then... do it!

18. Give him a loving smile from across the room.

19. Draw or obtain a new romantic picture of two lovers in each others grasp and give it to your love as a reminder of your passion.

20. If you live quite a distance from your love, surprise them with a visit.

21. When she is asleep in the morning, cover her with rose petals and wake her up to an I love you breakfast in bed.

22. Secretly write S-H-M-I-L-Y anywhere your lover will find it. SHMILY= See How Much I Love You.

23. Have a romantic weekend.

24. For a week, smothering your spouse with all the small intimate things they like.

25. Do a simple act of kindness, such as a backrub when he feels sick, to brighten his day.

:)

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