1. There should be repeated contact. Eye contact is very important, it tells that you are sincere. On your first, he will make sure that it is really him that you are flirting with. With your second, he knows it's him and is all giddy about it and on your third, he might be going over to your table now, you should express interest by introducing yourself and starting a conversation.
2. Whisper. This usually gets their attention. Avoid shouting. Check your voice; it may sound like a grill.
3. Don't stay in a group. No man can bear a rejection in front of a herd. Also, he may feel that he can't approach you because of your friends.
4. If you are not interested, be polite. You can always refer him to one of the girls. At least, you can practice your confidence in meeting other people and you just met a potential friend!
5. Give clear signals that you are not just making fun out of it. Make sure to check your choice of words too, your flirting might sound a little sexual instead of a friendly flirting.
6. Be positive. People like to be with people who are cheerful and has a positive mindset. Feel good about yourself and everyone, and they will feel good about you.
7. Buddy system. This is used a lot by female groups going to parties or drinking place. Walk through a group of men and let one of your friends check out who is eyeing on you.
8. Become more irresistible by showing a little of you, a little flesh in the legs is not that bad, wear something that can emphasize your great features.
9. Give him the winning look. From head to toe, nod with approval and flash your sweetest smile.
10. Lastly, don't forget to be YOURSELF! You will not enjoy any moment of it if you are playing somebody who you're not supposed to be, stay focus and be proud of who you are.
Flirting is a negotiation process that takes place after there is some initial attraction. So, anybody can do it. These flirting tips for girls, teen girls and ladies in all walks of life is just some guide for you to go out and find that special someone, in case, you have your own style, just incorporate some of the tips here and I guarantee, you'll be I-R-R-E-S-I-S-T-I-B-L-E!
But most guys (pigs & players aside) will avoid saying "I love you" unless they're IN love with a girl.
Should you say it first? Well, if the thought is fairly new to you, you might want to wait a while. But if you've felt this way for months, you should move things along by letting him know.
I believe in getting the feelings out there and dealing with them in a straightforward way. Some guys don't want commitment. If that's the case with this guy -- well, frankly, you're better off finding out sooner rather than later.

























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