A Sportif asked:
Should I say "I love you," or wait for my guy to say it first? And do guys feel they have to clarify if they're "in love," versus loving someone? (i.e. "I'm not IN LOVE with you, but I love you?"). What's the difference, and if he's not 'in love' with me, should I end it?
A Guy Critical answered:
News flash: no guy is going to understand what you're asking beyond the first sentence. We don't analyze our feelings that much. If he says he loves you, he means he loves you in the way that a man loves a woman, not in the way he loves football and beer.
An Intellectual Guy answered:
Men hate making themselves psychologically vulnerable, perhaps in the same way that women hate making themselves physically vulnerable. Revealing feelings of this sort in the schoolyard was a surefire way to get beaten up, and most men get scarred by the schoolyard in one way or another.
But most guys (pigs & players aside) will avoid saying "I love you" unless they're IN love with a girl.
Should you say it first? Well, if the thought is fairly new to you, you might want to wait a while. But if you've felt this way for months, you should move things along by letting him know.
I believe in getting the feelings out there and dealing with them in a straightforward way. Some guys don't want commitment. If that's the case with this guy -- well, frankly, you're better off finding out sooner rather than later.
But most guys (pigs & players aside) will avoid saying "I love you" unless they're IN love with a girl.
Should you say it first? Well, if the thought is fairly new to you, you might want to wait a while. But if you've felt this way for months, you should move things along by letting him know.
I believe in getting the feelings out there and dealing with them in a straightforward way. Some guys don't want commitment. If that's the case with this guy -- well, frankly, you're better off finding out sooner rather than later.
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