How to get my ex back? We were together for 2 years, he now has a new girlfriend but....

slept with me recently, but claims he loves her. I can tell he still has feelings for me, how can I get him to realise this?

1. Stop sleeping with him, don't call him, don't "accidently" text him. At the moment this guy has his cake and is being able to eat it! Keep yourself occupied going out with friends, if he sees you being happy and getting on with your life it might make him realise what he's lost, and you might realise you are better off without him!!

2. Hmmmm! He certainly has got it made! You and his new girlfriend to have sex with, lucky bloke. Hope you are taking precautions to prevent diseases being passed about between you all? If he says he loves her then he has surely been honest with you, tell him where to go next time he contacts you and avoid him. He may still have feelings for you but he needs to finish with the other girl first, you don't want to be a spare or 2nd best do you? He may realise its you he wants in time but for now get rid of him, he's messing you about.

3. He has told you he has a new girlfriend and he has told you he loves her. However much you don't want to hear it, he has moved on. I don't doubt he still has feelings for you but I think you're perhaps clinging on in the hope its you he really loves and hence the reason you slept with him. Did you hope he would 'come to his senses' in bed? Obviously that didn't work, so what's your next plan? Don't sleep with him, don't text him, don't go out of your way to speak to him or see him. I've been there and know how painful it is!